Sorry - this is NOT a craft post.
Just wanted to share some pictures with family and to take a moment to let everyone know our thoughts are very much with you guys right now. We're approaching the 1 year mark since mom died which is sooooo hard to believe despite being a fact.
It's also a fact that life goes on - even on the days we don't feel we want it to and it's been tough getting on with it at times. We had originally planned to go be with family right now but decided to hold off until next year maybe. We settled for sending flowers instead of ourselves (so hope you guys got them ok). Hope it was a nice surprise too. Some good friends had kindly left a surprise package for Dave and I when I got home from work yesterday which cheered me up no end and was super sweet of them. Isn't that just such a lovely thing to do? I love Random Acts of Kindness. You never know what someone is going through and often they come just at the right time.
Anyhow we had taken to visiting mom as often as we could over the past few years or so and as most of us kids are now getting older I hope we'll still try to visit one another as often as we can. It's a LONG haul flight (and then some) and I know it gets harder to do, the older you get, so with everyone somewhere around the 50's mark these are maybe the best years to be makin that trip. I hope you guys back home are taking note!
I don't much care for flying. I like my feet firmly on the ground thank you. Mom was the main reason I made that trip soooo many times - I really miss her :-( I think I need to make that trip next year or I'm in danger of not making it again.
Okay - enough being glum or I shall cry - like I say 'life goes on' and there are plenty of good days still to be had. Mom would be the first to say that.
Last weekend was one such day for Dave and I and we all enjoyed it so much. We hadn't spent much time with the grandkids over the summer and I felt we were long overdue a day out together to make up for it. As they get older and more involved in things at school, their lives become busier so there are less opportunities to spend quality time with them.
We kept them in the dark about the destination - all they knew was that we had packed a picnic lunch and it was a long drive. I love surprising them and I think Grandma did a fab job at keeping them occupied in the car playing games along the way - even if I do say so myself :-) All part of the adventure!
We were headed for the 'maise' maze at Southwold for the day and maybe take in the sea while we were there. If you've never done a maze like this - DO! It's not very expensive and it's good old fashioned fun. The kind where the kids have to get involved - not a mechanical ride or other such attraction in sight - just plain ol' curiosity, exploration and family fun at your own pace.
There was of course plenty of discussion about which direction we should go and sorry Papa but your map reading skills were crap! We were all over the place! And at one point these guys ganged up on me and deliberately helped me get lost so they could have even more fun! Meanies that they are. But Grandmas are made of stronger stuff - I can take it - they thought it was hilarious!
This is about as good a shot of Zach as I managed in the maze. He insists on wearing his hood over his head no matter what and without mom as an excuse I simply can't tempt him to pose for me anymore.
In fact once the maze was over and we explored the children's play areas he refused to go on this giant 'bouncy pillow' saying - "that's for little kids, I am almost a teenager you know Grandma" Imagine that at 11 years old would you? Although when they came for dinner last night mummy did remind me he's 12 in 6 months time so it's not quite so far fetched I guess. Maybe he's a 'teenager in training' lol.
Maddy had a blast tho'. The kids have a trampoline in their back yard and they're not afraid to use it so Maddy and Kaleb were in there like a shot. And as you would expect it didn't take very long for Zach to realise they were having way more fun than he was and maybe he should give up the 'older kid' routine and just go have fun too. Kids are just so funny aren't they :-)
These guys can do a whole load of bickering with each other like most kids do now and then and a younger sister can be a real pain but we don't allow that on our time together. It was especially nice then to see them all getting along and helping one another out. Kaleb was a real sweetie and pushed Maddy all the way around the maise track more than once. Hopefully some day they'll realise just how lucky they are to have each other - catch em on a good day and they'll probably tell you that but that kind of good day is rare I can tell you.
And although mummy wasn't with us - she wasn't totally excluded from the day either. We ended our day on the beach at Southwold and once the kids got to writing in the sand it wasn't long before one of them thought about creating a 'mushy' message for mummy. Naturally it was Zach.
It's hard to describe the relationship between him and his mother sometimes but they are deeply connected and have been through a lot together. Maybe I should put several of these pictures in an album for her and get the kids involved in it somehow. Christmas is only around the corner. HUSH MY MOUTH! Did I really say that out loud? Less than 4 months now you know :-) LOL!
Zach is a sensitive guy and has always had a soft spot for his younger sister. In fact when he went away to camp with Papa this year Maddy took to sleeping in his bed she missed him so much. Zach could always make her laugh when she was a baby so a deep bond quickly developed between them. I think he was secretly pleased she missed him enough to sleep in his bed till he got back home.
Anyhow once down at the shore line if she wasn't grabbing for his hand then he was grabbing for hers, instinctively taking care of her and he was happy to do so. They had WAY MORE fun chasing the waves than I expected and HECK we could've spent hours here, never mind the maze. Them playing and us watching them - although I did get caught out when I turned my back on the waves while searching for the perfect rock to take home to mummy. All of a sudden I heard shouts of "Grandma! Grandma!" but TOO LATE. I got soaked - shoes an all LOL! I squelched my way all along the pier afterwards too but then Kaleb had fallen in so he was pretty wet as well. Oh well - it's only a bit of water.

Southwold may not be a great looker as seaside goes - I could think of better - but it has a lovely sandy beach and pretty rows of beach huts. The amusement arcade on the pier is pretty small too so it made for maybe a good half hour or more of fun which is just enough. I loved that you win tickets on the slot machines and it's pretty easy to win so that once everyone exchanged their tickets for prizes they all came away having won something. I'm all about being fair when we get together with these guys ya know.

And Debbie - if you're lookin in at my blog - this one's for you. Here is your God-daughter minus her long locks and looking much older than I've ever seen her before. She will be 7 in 5 months time do you believe? I'm getting used to her having shorter hair. Zach still refuses to have anything more than a trim - he likes his hair longer and Kaleb has gone back to a 'boys' hair style instead of the close cropped hair he's had for the past few years. Kaleb has a real head of 'Howard hair' - lusciously thick and soft - you know 'run your fingers through it ' kinda hair LOL.

And last but not least these fab sunflowers were for sale on the journey home - one of those stands at the end of someones garden along with an honesty box - just £1 a bunch which was pretty amazing! I love looking out for these on a country drive. These ones went home to mummy so she didn't miss out on all the treats of the day. They were just beautiful. I am soooooo gonna grow some of these next year on our plot - imagine leaving these on a doorstep as a RAK.
So I hope you enjoyed 'a day in the life of...' kinda post. The kids could not stop talkin about it once they got home so I know they had megga fun and Dave and I sure did. I want to do it all again just as soon as we can. Maybe it's time we did 'Bewilder Wood' again. That's a whole lot of 'make your own fun' kinda activity and I don't think Maddy came last time - she was a bit too young to climb, swing and slide.
And to everyone else out there in blog land that maybe checks in with me from time to time - apologies that I haven't posted a craft in a while. Between our plot, work on the house plus re-decorating the sitting room and bunches of sewing (more fabric carrier bags - nothin new) I have been around. Just not posting.
I plan to start my Christmas sewing here pretty soon but on todays agenda it's cooking apples for the freezer, shopping for curtain fabric and a bit more sewing later on if I can manage it. I will be getting back to crafts at some point I hope so hang in there with me. For now I'll leave you with one last shot of Southwold Maze, right in the thick of it overlooking from the bridge - this years theme was birds but you couldn't tell from this shot.
If you've never done a maze like this before - put it on next summers 'TO DO' list and give one a try.
Love & blessings to everyone.
Hugs too
Suezie